Ah, the magic of Christmas in London – a symphony of twinkling lights, tinsel and festive markets. Christmas is coming, and if you find yourself in this enchanting city with your girlfriend, it can be overwhelming trying to figure out which Christmas activities to participate in. Which experiences are worth it? Which are too overcrowded?
As we’ve talked about before, women want men who will lead. It shows confidence, and the ability to look after both yourself and her. This extends to the world of dating. Do you have something up your sleeve this Christmas, or are you leaving her to make all the decisions for you? We’ve given many date ideas before, but never focused on Christmas. After reading this article, you’ll have no end of ideas of where to take your girlfriend this winter.
Get ready for a sleigh ride of joyous experiences that will weave a tapestry of cherished memories. Let’s unwrap an advent of 12 delightful date ideas to make this Christmas in London truly special for you and your girlfriend. Whether it’s your first Christmas together, or one of many, let’s make Christmas 2023 the most unforgettable yet!
1. Iconic Christmas markets
Explore the wonder of continental traditions with London’s iconic Christmas markets. From the Southbank Centre’s Winter Market to the festive stalls at Covent Garden, you’ll find filling food, intoxicating drinks and more besides, so let the enchanting atmosphere ignite your appetite for you and your girlfriend.
2. Glide into romance
The perfect excuse to hold hands, twirl into a romantic ice skating adventure this
Christmas. With venues like Somerset House, you’re treated to the stunning surroundings of a neoclassical courtyard complimented by the perfect ambient lighting, or Battersea Power Station for the only riverside ice rink in London. The complimentary champagne and pizza makes this one a particularly tempting choice.
Glide together under the stars, creating picture-perfect moments etched in the frosty air, and cuddle up with your girlfriend afterwards in après-ski themed bars.
3. Festive theatre fun
Laughter is sexy, and if you share such a moment together, she’ll associate that positive feeling with you. There’s no better way to find a laugh at Christmas than in the theatre.
Explore London’s vibrant theatre scene by attending a traditional British play. Whether it’s an old classic or a contemporary production, there’s something for everybody this winter. It’s not just cheesy pantos; there’s drag cabaret; an improv Christmas Carol where one cast member is genuinely drunk; and adult versions of classic pantomimes.
4. Carousel magic for two
Hop on a beautifully adorned carousel at Leicester Square or Covent Garden. Another reason to cuddle up close inside a giant tea cup or atop a horse together, the warm lights and vintage style will help to bring you and your girlfriend together.
Bathe in the comfort of nostalgia as you’re brought back to an earlier, carefree time when you were a child and sat on a carousel for the first time. It will instil an air of comfort and confidence in you both.
5. Step into a Winter Wonderland
All of the above activities in this list can actually be experienced in one place – London’s famous Winter Wonderland. Whether you’re looking for great food, drinks, entertainment, rides, ice skating and that intangible Christmas spirit, look no further.
It’s got everything you need on a date, with plenty of inspiration to avoid those awkward silences. As one of the biggest Christmas attractions in London, it’s very often crowded, so make sure to book your favourite activities beforehand. Not only will it beat queues, but it’ll show you’re a forward thinker and you’ve got everything sorted out. Your girlfriend can relax and just enjoy what you’ve got planned.
6. Stroll under a marvel of Christmas lights
Marvel at the dazzling Christmas light displays along Oxford Street, Regent Street, and Carnaby Street. Take a leisurely stroll hand in hand while window shopping, basking in the glow of twinkling lights, and let the festive aura kindle romance in you both. Maybe you’ll spot the perfect gift for her along the way.
If you’re both exhausted after strolling the Christmas streets all December, then you can try a very different effect atop a bus. London’s famous Hop-on, Hop-off open-top tour bus is a delight throughout the year. Now taking you through the dazzling spectacle of Christmas lights, the tour takes on a whole new feeling. It’s not just for tourists. But that’s not the only way to get around…
7. Romantic Cruise on the Thames
By bus-top is just one way of seeing the lights of London. What can be more romantic than cuddling up to your girlfriend, drifting past the houses of parliament, the London eye and Southbank all lit up like a Christmas tree, all while traveling on one of the world’s most famous rivers?
Take in the breath-taking views of these iconic landmarks, all reflected in the water, with plenty of time to appreciate it all on the Thames Cruises. She’ll admire your out-of-the-box thinking. Everyone knows about the bus tours, but to travel by boat means to travel with style.
8. Decadent Christmas Meals
Treat your girlfriend to a delicious Christmas dinner. Choose from luxurious establishments like The Ritz or Claridge’s, or opt for cosy places like Sketch or Fortnum & Mason. Savour the warm gravy and tantalising aroma of freshly roasted meats, accompanied by comforting tea or a cheeky mulled wine. Bask in each other’s company as you relish in the flavours of Christmas.
Book a table at a restaurant that embraces the holiday spirit. Whether it’s a traditional British feast or a fine dining experience, relish an intimate and festive dinner together, savouring delectable cuisine and toasting to your love.
9. A Melodic Christmas Carol Concert
If history and solemnities are more your thing, immerse yourselves in the soul-stirring melodies of a Christmas carol concert. Explore historic venues such as St. Paul’s Cathedral or Westminster Abbey for an enchanting experience filled with heavenly voices and timeless music. Whether you’re religious or not, carols are an age-old tradition and sitting in the pews together with your girlfriend admiring the vocal ability of the choir can help ignite a romantic atmosphere.
10. Capture your love in a festive photo
What better way to memorialise the date than to capture it eternally in a photo. Book a festive photoshoot to capture your love and the spirit of Christmas. Pose amidst iconic London landmarks or choose a cosy indoor setting. These cherished photos will be beautiful reminders of your magical time together. When she’s away from you, she’ll be able to look at these photos and increase the feeling of attraction, despite you being miles away.
You don’t have to book a professional photo shoot or pop into one of Santa’s Grottos – just activate your phone’s selfie mode and you’ve got an instant memory maker!
11. Festive Workshop Adventure
If you prefer rolling up your sleeves and getting your hands dirty, why not enrol in a festive workshop or class to learn a new skill or create something special together. From wreath-making classes to gingerbread house decorating workshops, these activities will spark creativity and provide cherished memories.
Maybe you’ll be terrible at it – what’s the worst that can happen? You’ll both have a laugh. And at best, you’ll walk away with yet another skill under your belt. Both humility and ability are attractive traits.
12. Or maybe just stay at home
After all that fun and adventure walking through London, there’s nothing better than putting your feet up at home. Amidst the holiday hustle, carve out peaceful moments for relaxation and reflection. That unique feeling of cosiness, staying snug indoors with your partner while it’s freezing outside will nourish heartfelt conversations and allow you to enjoy each other’s company without distractions.
Decorate your Christmas tree together, sip hot chocolate by the fireplace, and cuddle up while watching classic Christmas films like Elf, Home Alone and Die Hard (yes, it’s a Christmas film).
London beckons with countless opportunities to create a magical Christmas with your girlfriend. Embrace the festive spirit, explore the charming streets, and indulge in romantic activities that capture the enchantment of the season. This Christmas in London is your celebration of love, marking a cherished chapter in your journey as a couple. So, let the festivities begin, and make this holiday season truly unforgettable!
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